How to win a woman's heart

How does a man win a woman's heart? That is the worlds biggest mystery because well, women are complicated and men are clueless. It is always the same fights between most couples and I read an article about it this morning, and it caught my interest. 

I am a woman, obviously, and because of that, I have to take the women side, the complicated one. So this post will give men more help, rather than women. So men, want to know how to win a woman's heart? Follow these steps, memorize them and never, I repeat NEVER forget them. 

• Make Time- Even if you are the busiest man on Earth, always make time. Time to take her to dinner, time to spend the night. It works if you work it. And if you have something else that you MUST do, then still make time to call her, or text her. That way you show her that she is a priority and that you care. 

• Active Listener- Always listen! A woman always has something on her mind, and has always something to say, no matter what it is about. Try really hard to not disagree with her, and when you do, still value her opinions. Make sure you don't do all the talking because it will bore her. Smile and nod, and give good responses to what she says. 

• Body Language- Body language says it all. If you sense a cold, or mad vibe from her, then she is! It doesn't help you asking if something is wrong because she will most likely say no and then get mad at you for not making her feel better. It is all in her body. Ask her several times what is wrong. Touch her, hug her, kiss her, let her know you are there for her anyway. If she gives off a good vibe, try really hard avoiding anything that may change that. 

• Reassure Her- A woman needs to know how others feel, they assume a lot and that can go very, very wrong. Reassure her every day how you feel by telling her you love her, or how beautiful she looks, even when she looks pretty dull and sick. Hold her hand, and tuck her hair behind her ear and keep holding her close so she knows that you are her safe space, If you find another woman attractive, for example one of her friends, don't make too much eye contact. Woman know which girls are hot and who are not, and if you just spend your time looking at your woman rather than the other hot girl, she will feel like she can trust you.

• Show Interest- Being enthusiastic in everything that she is excited about is extremely important. It is telling her "what's yours is mine" and she will feel more comfortable sharing things with you. Do the things that she wants to do with her, and give her ideas about some things that you are in interested it, so she knows that it is a two way street. Open up to her so she knows that you value her opinion.